Phoenix recommendations? - thoughts?

Confidence is key. Act like youve done it a thousand times

Honestly, I think you're on the right track with that mindset. Phoenix can be a mixed bag depending on where you're trying to go — some spots are super chill, others have bouncers who've pretty much seen it all. I'd say start at a couple of laid-back dive bars or even a chain restaurant that does drinks, just to get a feel for how you handle yourself. Confidence is half the battle. You don't wanna be that guy sweating bullets when someone glances at your ID for two seconds.

Once you're comfortable with the casual "yeah, just a beer" routine, then you can start testing the waters at busier places — like a mid-tier club or a bar that's known to be a little more strict. The key is to not jump straight into the deep end. I've seen too many people get burned because they tried a high-profile spot first and got their ID pulled. It's not worth the risk, especially if you're new to this. Build up that muscle memory: how you hand it over, making eye contact, acting like you've done this a hundred times before.

Also, don't underestimate the value of going with a group of friends who can back you up if something feels off. If you're solo and nervous, it's way more obvious. Anyway, that's my two cents — start small, work your way up, and you'll be way more confident when you finally hit that Phoenix club you've been eyeing.

Dont stare at the bouncer while they check. Look at your phone or something

Have your ID ready before you get to the door. Fumbling looks bad